Sunday, January 5, 2025

The Struggle to Separate the Artist from the Art: A Deep-Dive into the Complexities of Judgment


In the age of social media, where celebrities are often both our idols and the subjects of intense public scrutiny, the question of whether we can or should separate the artist from their art extends beyond traditional art forms into the world of entertainment. Musicians, actors, athletes, and influencers all create public personas that blend their talents with their personal lives, and as a result, their art—or performances—become intertwined with their identity. But when those celebrities falter or their actions contradict our values, it raises the inevitable question: Can we continue to enjoy their work without endorsing their behavior?

The debate over whether it’s possible—or even ethical—to separate the celebrity from their work is more nuanced than ever. We’re not just talking about their roles in movies or albums; this dilemma applies to influencers' social media posts, sports figures’ public stances, and even the way we perceive a celebrity’s private life in relation to their professional output. With celebrities under a constant spotlight, it’s increasingly difficult to appreciate their talents without acknowledging their personal flaws, controversial actions, or even their politics. This question is not new but is being asked with increasing frequency in today’s society. The debate over whether we can – or should – separate the artist from the art touches on deep ethical considerations, personal values, and the power of artistic creation.

Celebrities are often seen as larger-than-life figures, with their work serving as an extension of their personal brand. Much like artists, their fame and public image often merge with their creative output. This is especially true for actors, musicians, and athletes, whose personal lives are closely followed by fans and media alike. Whether through the characters they portray, the music they create, or their philanthropic endeavors, celebrities often share intimate pieces of themselves with the public.

The allure of the artist’s persona is undeniable. In many cases, the creator’s identity becomes inseparable from their work, often fueling or even enhancing its allure. Consider how much of an artist’s public life—whether it’s their political activism, personal struggles, or scandals—becomes intertwined with their output. When an artist is revered, their work often takes on additional layers of meaning, shaped by their life’s story.

This interplay between image and art becomes even more complicated when a celebrity is caught in scandal or accused of harmful behavior. Suddenly, the fan who once idolized an actor, singer, or influencer might feel as if they have to choose between their admiration for the work and their personal ethics. Should we keep supporting them, or does the support of their art feel like an endorsement of their behavior?

One of the key reasons it's difficult to separate the artist from the art is the issue of accountability. When an artist’s actions or words contradict the values we hold dear, consuming their art can feel like an endorsement of their behavior. This is particularly evident in the case of artists who have been accused of harming others, whether it be through abuse, exploitation, or discriminatory views.
In these instances, it’s not just about the moral dilemma of engaging with their work, but also the social responsibility we feel to not perpetuate harmful behaviors. We might ask ourselves: by continuing to consume art from controversial figures, are we excusing their actions or giving them a platform? The tension between personal enjoyment and social responsibility can create a deep internal conflict.

The rise of "cancel culture" has made the artist-celebrity dilemma even more immediate. In a digital age where everything a celebrity does or says is magnified and immortalized online, the notion of separating the celebrity from their art becomes less viable. When a celebrity faces accusations of misconduct, whether it be through #MeToo allegations, racist remarks, or unethical actions, fans and critics alike are quick to react. Some argue that we have a responsibility to hold celebrities accountable for their actions and stop supporting them financially and emotionally. Others contend that we should separate the work from the personal life, not allowing their flaws to eclipse their achievements.

The case of R. Kelly serves as a prominent example. His musical contributions, which had once made him one of the most influential artists in the R&B world, are now largely overshadowed by his conviction for sexual abuse and exploitation. For many fans, listening to his music feels wrong, as it now brings the weight of his criminal behavior along with it. Yet, there are still those who continue to listen to his songs, either because they believe in the value of his music or because they believe that the art itself should remain unaffected by the artist’s personal life. 

From an ethical standpoint, I for one no longer listen to R. Kelly, among many other artists/abusers. Supporting a rapist and pedophile, regardless of his talent, is complicitness of their actions, period. He is still benefiting by monetizing off "fans" who would rather listen to a good beat than support the dozens of Black girls and women abused by him. The money he made directly from his art and his fans is what allowed him to fund his abuser lifestyle. Not to mention, it was hush money to pay off the families of the girls/women he abused to keep his preferences private and out of the litigation. Being a woman, having dealt with abusive and toxic men, and having daughters of my own are my guiding post on whose artistry I choose to engage with. While those weren't my daughters who were abused and assaulted by him, they were someone else's child(ren). Me being in that specific situation shouldn't be the only reason why I stop supporting vile and disgusting human beings. It's called emotional intelligence, empathy, and critical thinking. 

Take for example the current situation with Justin Baldoni suing the New York Times for the way they reported the news regarding the sexual harassment Blake Lively allegedly experienced on the set of It Ends With Us. When her complaint came out, so many women rushed to believe and stand with her without hearing Justin Baldoni's side. I'm not going to lie, when I heard of her claims, I was disappointed, but my intuition told me something didn't feel right. I love the work Justin Baldoni has been doing with getting men to talk about their feelings, their struggles, going to therapy, and hosting a podcast, The Man Enough Podcast, deconstructing masculinity and the negative implications of patriarchy on men. When his lawsuit came out, it began to make more sense. The 87 page document  provided incriminating evidence that contradicted BL's claims and how she basically danced around the truth and provided detailed accounts where she took things out of context to make it appear as though she was the victim in the situation and not the aggressor. She essentially alienated JB from the rest of the cast, blocked him from participating in interviews with the cast, among many other things. Many claim that is was a hostile takeover because she wanted producer credits and the rights to the sequel without JB's involvement. Her narcissistic and calculated methods turned JB's passion project for the last 6 years into a nightmare. Don't get me started on Colleen Hoover and wanting to be buddy buddy with Hollywood "royalty" and the controversies surrounding her books. What I do know is that I never heard anyone talk ill of JB; but I have heard of BL's mean girl vibes since her start on Gossip Girl. When this all came out, her role in A Simple Favor seems more in line with who she is in real life. Again, I don't personally know her, but these are based on how she presents herself to the general public and reading between the lines of the things she says in interviews. I mean, she and Ryan Reynolds did get married on a plantation. That in itself should speak volumes about them. For the record, no one should be getting married on plantations.

The criteria is still the same regardless of it's a musician, celebrity, athlete, or anyone in the public eye. I'm not perfect by any means and know that I can't 100% eliminate the art from my life, but I do make a conscious effort to opt out of listening or watching. There are situations that I can't control, like out in public, at get togethers, and/or other people's homes. And that is precisely why I keep a pair of charged earbuds with me so that I can just pop them in my ears and  listen to a book. Shoutout to Libby!

So, is it possible to completely separate the artist from the art? The short answer is: probably not.While it may be tempting to say, "I can just enjoy the art without endorsing the artist," this becomes more complicated when money is involved. Celebrities are often financially rewarded for their work, and continuing to engage with their art—whether through album sales, ticket purchases, or even streaming platforms—translates to supporting them directly. For some, this feels like complicity. Can we, in good conscience, continue to financially support a celebrity whose actions contradict our ethical beliefs? Or should we view art as a separate entity, unaffected by the moral character of the person who created it? Our connection to art is deeply emotional, and when an artist’s personal life or behavior enters the conversation, it can irreversibly affect how we perceive their work. Yet, the act of disconnection can also serve as a form of resistance. By acknowledging the artist's flaws, we engage in a more complex conversation about the nature of art, creativity, and society itself.

It’s important to acknowledge that there is no one-size-fits-all answer. Some may find it easier to appreciate a work despite knowing its creator's flaws, while others may choose to abandon the art entirely, unable to reconcile the two. The answer to this question is ultimately personal, shaped by our own values, experiences, and tolerance for nuance. It requires self-reflection and an understanding of what we value in both art and the artists who create it.

To reiterate as we move forward, we must ask ourselves: 
Can we appreciate art and performance for what they are, or is it impossible to overlook the human behind the work?

Until next time...


Sharon 


P.S. One thing I will continue to look forward to in 2025 and beyond is the downfall of Hollywood, politicians, and the rich. People are waking up, educating themselves, and realizing that the math isn't mathing. When the masses get fed up and realize there are more of us than them, we can demand changes. Don't believe me, just watch Disney's A Bug's Life. The movie is a metaphor for the power structure/dynamic between the haves and the have-nots, symbolic of how our society operates.

Friday, January 3, 2025

Plotting Your Progress: Fun Ways to Track Your Reading Journey

In today’s digital age, we live in a world that thrives on constant comparison. From social media updates to fitness challenges, it often feels like there's always something to measure against. One area where this comparison has become particularly prominent is reading. The rise of reading challenges, yearly goals, and social sharing platforms like Goodreads, Fable, and StoryGraph has made it easier than ever to track how many books we read. While this can be motivating for some, it has also led to the notion that reading a lot of books is a competition. The way I see it, I am only in competition with myself from the previous year and how I can make a healthier, happier, and knowledgeable version of myself going forward. Knowledge is power. Well, according to Cersei Lannister, "Power is Power." 

Here's another take that I really appreciate:


I know, I know, I know, my previous post was me sharing that I listened to 402 books in 2024. That was me sharing my reignited passion for reading, (and possibly making up for lost time while being focused on living and surviving). Too many books, too little time, with a dash of undiagnosed ADHD and a listening speed of 2.5X to 3.0X. Because of this chaotic combination, I now have so many authors that I can recommend and anticipate new books from, as well as a TBR that is constantly growing and never-ending.

I saw this chart in one of the book communities I am in on Facebook and it is not to shame or make anyone feel bad, rather, I hope this makes you proud of the progress you have made with your reads and/or encourages someone to start their reading journey and fall in love with books as I have. I think about how rich my life is now with all the knowledge I have acquired from the books I have been exposed to. Everyone has their own reasons for reading, and those reasons can vary widely from person to person. I hope you find your reason(s) and niche. Some read to escape reality, others to learn, and some for the pure love of stories. For me, it's all three! 




If you're an avid reader like me, keeping track of the books you read can enhance your reading experience. Tracking your journey not only helps you remember what you've read but also allows you to set goals, analyze your reading habits, and discover new books that match your interests. Whether you're diving into fiction or exploring thought-provoking nonfiction, here are some practical ways to document and celebrate your reading journey.

1. Keep a Reading Journal
A reading journal is a timeless method for tracking your books. You can jot down titles, authors, dates finished, and personal thoughts. Here’s how to get started:

  • Create a dedicated notebook or use a digital note-taking app.

  • Record basic details like the book title, author, and genre.

  • Add your favorite quotes, memorable moments, and personal reviews.

  • Reflect on themes and your emotional response to the story.

2. Use Book Tracking Apps
Apps make tracking effortless and fun. Platforms like StoryGraph, Fable, and Goodreads are popular among readers:

  • StoryGraph (Founder: Nadia Odunayo - Black-Owned Business): Offers mood-based recommendations, detailed reading stats (such as average page length, reading pace, and favorite genres), and customizable reading challenges and goals. You can filter books by specific themes, triggers, or content warnings, which helps you find books that align with your values and preferences, as well as ensuring you avoid books that might not be suitable for your needs. It doesn’t overwhelm users with ads or distraction, as it is ad-free, providing a distraction-free experience.

  • Fable (Founder: Padmasree Warrior - Indian-Owned Business): Focuses on creating a more social and interactive reading experience, offering a variety of benefits for book lovers. Users to join or create book clubs where they can read and discuss books together in real time. This social aspect enhances the reading experience, as you can share thoughts, questions, and reflections with fellow readers. In book clubs, you can participate in live chats with fellow readers, discussing chapters and characters as you go along. This creates a dynamic, real-time conversation around books. able offers personalized book recommendations based on your reading history and preferences. You can discover new books through curated lists, ensuring that your reading experience stays fresh and relevant. Fable also has a large library of ebooks, including bestsellers, contemporary works, and more niche titles. As a subscription-based service, it gives you access to a variety of titles at a flat fee, which can be more affordable than purchasing books individually. One of the main disadvantages of using Fable as a reading platform is the lack of audiobook support. While the platform offers a wide range of ebooks and focuses on providing a great digital reading experience, it does not yet support audiobooks. Here's hoping it happens sooner rather than later!

  • Goodreads: Provides a social platform to share your progress, join book clubs, and set annual reading goals. (MY TAKE on Goodreads - I won't elaborate too much into Goodreads because I am not a fan of the monopoly Amazon has become thanks to Jeff Bezos and his greed. While I do use Amazon for shopping, I try my hardest to buy most of my books off Amazon. I know it's easy to use Goodreads if you read on a kindle and/or buy books on Amazon, but Bezos is rich enough. )

These apps also allow you to categorize books as “Want to Read,” “Currently Reading,” or “Read,” making organization a breeze. You can also categorize as "Did Not Finish" (DNF) for books that you just couldn't get into or "Re-Read" for those stories that were too good to only read once! 

One advantage of StoryGraph and Fable is that they offer the ability to import data from Goodreads, which comes with several advantages for users transitioning or integrating their reading experiences across platforms. Both StoryGraph and Fable allow for a quick setup by importing your Goodreads data, which eliminates the need to manually add books you've read and reviews you've written. This can be especially beneficial for avid readers with large libraries.  Importing from Goodreads ensures that none of your reading history, ratings, or reviews are lost. Whether you're transitioning to a new platform or looking to back up your data, it guarantees continuity. Both platforms provide personalized recommendations and insights, which become more accurate with your Goodreads history. Your preferences, reading stats, and trends can be used to generate book suggestions tailored to your tastes. By importing your Goodreads data, you can maintain connections with friends and fellow readers, ensuring that your social reading experience continues seamlessly, whether on StoryGraph or Fable.

Added bonus -- If you don't want to support and keep making a corrupt billionaire richer year after year, StoryGraph and Fable are the way to go! BIPOC and woman-owned/operated = a win/win for everyone!

3. Create a Spreadsheet
If you love customizing data, a spreadsheet might be your perfect tool. Use columns for:

  • Title, author, and genre

  • Date started and finished

  • Star rating

  • Key themes or takeaways

Spreadsheets allow you to filter and sort data, making it easy to analyze your reading habits over time.

If you don't want to create one, I was fortunate to to find ONE made by a fellow book lover when I first began my reading journey in October 2023. I wish I could tag her for credit, but it's been so long since I last had access to her video. Make sure to make a copy of the spreadsheet before you do anything else to ensure the template works for anyone else accessing the link after you. 

DISCLAIMER: Do keep in mind that this spreadsheet is on Google Drive and you should have working knowledge on how to add additional columns/rows, edit options, use formulas, and how to create/edit charts and graphs. Also, this creator of the spreadsheet's genre of choice is romance, so if that's not your forte, knowing how to maneuver in spreadsheets is a MUST! If you don't, Google/YouTube will be your best friend, like they are mine.

4. Participate in Reading Challenges
Joining challenges can motivate you to track your progress and stay consistent. Examples include:

  • The annual Goodreads Reading Challenge

  • "Read Around the World" challenges focusing on diverse authors

  • Genre-specific goals, like reading a certain number of mysteries or memoirs

Track your progress in a journal, app, or social media post to stay accountable.

5. Annotate Your Books
For physical book lovers, annotating directly in the margins can be a great way to track your thoughts and progress. Use sticky notes, highlighters, or even a pencil to:

  • Highlight meaningful passages

  • Add notes about your reactions or insights

  • Mark questions or topics for further exploration

6. Join a Book Community
Online book communities offer a space to share and track your reading journey with others. Platforms like Reddit (“/r/books”), Instagram (Bookstagram), Tik Tok (BookTok) or Facebook groups can inspire you to:

  • Share your reading goals

  • Discover new books

  • Discuss your thoughts with like-minded readers

7. Use Visual Aids
If you’re a visual learner, tracking your reading journey with visuals can be exciting:

  • Bullet Journals: Incorporate creative trackers like bookshelf drawings, habit trackers, or pie charts.

  • Digital Infographics: Use tools like Canva to create appealing reading summaries.

  • Wall Displays: Dedicate a space in your home for a reading wall where you display book covers or quotes.

8. Reflect and Adjust
At the end of each month or year, review your reading log. Ask yourself:

  • What genres did I enjoy the most?

  • Did I meet my reading goals?

  • What did I learn from these books?

Use this reflection to refine your goals and improve your tracking methods.

Tracking your reading journey is more than just a list of books; it’s a way to deepen your connection to the stories and ideas that shape your world. Whether you choose a traditional journal, a high-tech app, or a creative visual aid, the key is finding a method that fits your style. Start tracking today and discover the joy of looking back on your literary adventures.

What book tracking method do you prefer and why?

Until next time...

Sharon

Wednesday, January 1, 2025

My Year of Reading: 2024 Stats, Highlights, and Takeaways

When I started 2024, I never imagined I’d end the year with 402 books under my belt. What began as a casual challenge turned into an unforgettable literary adventure that shaped my days and expanded my worldview. As an avid reader, who found her love for reading again at the end of 2023, 2024 has been a remarkable reading journey is all about expanding horizons and deepening connections. Last year, I aimed to prioritize books by BIPOC authors, diving into diverse narratives that reflect unique cultural experiences and voices. With a busy schedule, audiobooks continued to be my go-to for staying on track. I made it a point to include more South Asian and BIPOC authors in my fun reads. Seeing my culture reflected in characters’ lives or exploring narratives I hadn’t experienced before brought a sense of connection and joy that was uniquely fulfilling, following stories that delved into the complexities of identity, culture, and belonging. From gripping novels to thought-provoking memoirs, books have become a bridge to understanding the myriad human experiences that shape us.

I started the year off with a South Asian author, and it is only right that I ended the year on the same note! Without even trying, I balanced non-fiction with my fiction books, 1 out of four. While I love my fiction books, I am a lifelong learner and constantly looking for ways to educate and improve myself. For me, the magic lies in the balance. Some days, I crave the comfort of a cozy read. Other days, I’m eager to dive into something thought-provoking and educational. The key is variety. Alternating between genres, topics, and tones keeps my reading life dynamic and fulfilling. Reading for fun brings me joy; reading for education fuels my growth. Together, they create a rich, rewarding experience that goes beyond turning pages. They help me stay curious, connected, and engaged with the world around me. 

Some amazing authors that I happen upon or found on social media (in no particular order) and their genres:

  • Sajni Patel - South Asian - Contemporary Romance
  • Tiffany Jackson - African American - YA, Thriller, Mystery
  • Angeline Boulley - Native American - YA, Thriller, Mystery
  • Tracey Deonn - African American - YA, Fantasy
  • V. Castro - Mexican American - Horror
  • R. F. Kuang - Chinese American - Fantasy
  • Nisha Sharma - South Asian - Contemporary Romance, YA
  • Claire M. Andrews - White - YA, Fantasy, Greek Mythology Retelling
  • Freida McFadden - White - Thriller, Mystery
  • Stacey Abrams (Selena Montgomery) - African American - Crime Thrillers

My favorite reads (again, in no particular order)!

Here are some of my reading stats (all metrics through StoryGraph):







As I plan my 2025 reading goals, I’m committed to continuing this balance. I’ll keep discovering books that make me laugh, cry, and think. And I’ll remember that no matter what I pick up next, there’s always something to gain—whether it’s a smile or a new perspective.

I have also chosen not to read/listen to books be Colleen Hoover and Sarah J. Maas. Seeing all the discourse and negativity surrounding Justin Baldoni trying to make a movie about DV and the author/Blake Lively, and the rest of the cast bullying and getting him booted off his passion project that he has been working on for the past 5 years. I've read three of her books and that was enough for me to know she's not my cup of tea. In regards to Sarah J. Maas, I have no desire to read ACOTAR due to her incorporation of Breonna Taylor's murder on the cover release of A Court of Silver Flames, as well as her lackluster inclusion of BIPOC and queer representation in her books. 

How do you approach your reading life? Do you lean toward fun or educational reads, or do you try to mix both like I do? Share your thoughts—I’d love to hear about your favorite books and what they’ve taught you!

Here’s to a new year of growth, discovery, and unforgettable stories!

Until next time...

Sharon

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